These question cards are an ideal addition to your date nights, game nights, or simply as a tool to deepen your connection with your partner. The cards boast an elegant design, and the questions themselves are designed to spark thoughtful discussions, making them excellent conversation starters.
Heather Thom
Registered Professional Counsellor
If you are looking to reconnect, to spend more intentional time with your partner, to deepen your relationship and emotional intimacy, For/Play cards can be a useful tool to make date night or down time more intentional.
Terri K.
Psychotherapist
I was impressed that the questions cover a broad range of topics from daily minutiae to deep fears and desires.
This can be great for both new couples and those looking to rejuvenate or deepen their relationships.
Delia P.
Psychotherapist
These question cards are an ideal addition to your date nights, game nights, or simply as a tool to deepen your connection with your partner. The cards boast an elegant design, and the questions themselves are designed to spark thoughtful discussions, making them excellent conversation starters.
Heather Thom
Registered Professional Counsellor
If you are looking to reconnect, to spend more intentional time with your partner, to deepen your relationship and emotional intimacy, For/Play cards can be a useful tool to make date night or down time more intentional.
Terri K.
Psychotherapist
I was impressed that the questions cover a broad range of topics from daily minutiae to deep fears and desires.
This can be great for both new couples and those looking to rejuvenate or deepen their relationships.
Delia P.
Psychotherapist
Approved By Therapists
Levels of Depth
Casual
Light-hearted icebreaker questions to help open up and ease into the conversation.
Connection
Questions to deepen your mutual understanding and closeness.
Commitment
Explore values, long-term goals and partnership strength.
Evergreen
10 questions you can always come back to and reflect on relationship growth.
Wildcards
To keep things interesting
Spontaneous Surprises: Shake up your usual routine with unexpected questions and scenarios, designed to bring spontaneity and excitement to your relationship.
Deeper Dares: Elevate your conversations with challenging questions that dare you both to step outside your comfort zones, fostering growth and deep connection.
Versatile Gameplay: Wildcards can be mixed in with any category or used on their own, offering an extra layer of unpredictability to your discussions.
148 Questions.
Backed By Therapists.
Ready For Play?
Who Is This For?
Whether you're embarking on a new relationship journey or have spent years as a loving duo.
For / Play Cards are the companion for couples at any stage. Ideal for couples seeking deeper intimacy.
Rekindling that initial spark, or simply looking for a meaningful way to spend time together.
How To Play
There's no right or wrong way to use For / Play Cards.
Pick a cozy date night or even a casual moment to pull out a card and spark a conversation. Keep it spontaneous.
Or schedule it in as a relationship-building activity. The cards come with a handy user guide filled with tips on fostering great conversations!
Still curious? Check out our instructions page!
What's The Point?
Communication is the life source of any relationship.
For / Play is designed to facilitate meaningful discussions that range from fun and light to deep and insightful.
Did you know It's not about interrogating each other; it's about creating a space to explore your thoughts, feelings, and dreams—individually and as a couple.
Where Are We Coming From?
Vulnerability Is Hard
Hi, we're Danielle and Alex 👋.
We're pretty big introverts so when we first started dating a few years ago, we had a hard time getting to really know each other on a deeper level.
At first we could barely make eye-contact.
But when we started seeking conversation starters on the internet, we found it easier to get past that 'get-to-know-you' stage.
Over time we built a strong foundation by asking each other these questions — and to this day we still make asking questions a priority.
There's certain power in asking questions. Whether you're a new couple or 36 years married — you'll be surprised at how the quality of your relationship can improve by asking the right questions.
The Right Questions
Turns out other couples see the power in asking questions too!
We started posting conversation starters on TikTok in April 2023.
200+ posts later we've shared almost 1,000 total questions.
And what did we learn?
Certain questions hit harder than others. We analyzed these questions over a period of several months to come up with 148 solid questions that we believe all couples should be asking each other.
These are the very questions you'll find in the For / Play deck.
Levels of Depth
Casual
Light-hearted icebreaker questions to help open up and ease into the conversation.
Connection
Questions to deepen your mutual understanding and closeness.
Commitment
Explore values, long-term goals and partnership strength.
Evergreen
10 questions you can always come back to and reflect on relationship growth.
Wildcards
To keep things interesting
Spontaneous Surprises: Shake up your usual routine with unexpected questions and scenarios, designed to bring spontaneity and excitement to your relationship.
Deeper Dares: Elevate your conversations with challenging questions that dare you both to step outside your comfort zones, fostering growth and deep connection.
Versatile Gameplay: Wildcards can be mixed in with any category or used on their own, offering an extra layer of unpredictability to your discussions.
Spontaneous Surprises: Shake up your usual routine with unexpected questions and scenarios, designed to bring spontaneity and excitement to your relationship.
Deeper Dares: Elevate your conversations with challenging questions that dare you both to step outside your comfort zones, fostering growth and deep connection.
Versatile Gameplay: Wildcards can be mixed in with any category or used on their own, offering an extra layer of unpredictability to your discussions.
148 Questions.
Backed By Therapists.
Ready For Play?
Who Is This For?
Whether you're embarking on a new relationship journey or have spent years as a loving duo, For / Play Cards are the companion for couples at any stage. Ideal for couples seeking deeper intimacy, rekindling that initial spark, or simply looking for a meaningful way to spend time together.
How To Play
There's no right or wrong way to use For / Play Cards. Pick a cozy date night or even a casual moment to pull out a card and spark a conversation. Keep it spontaneous or schedule it in as a relationship-building activity. The cards come with a handy user guide filled with tips on fostering great conversations!
What's The Point?
Communication is the life source of any relationship. For / Play Cards are designed to facilitate meaningful discussions that range from fun and light to deep and insightful. It's not about interrogating each other; it's about creating a space to explore your thoughts, feelings, and dreams—individually and as a couple.
Where Are We Coming From?
Vulnerability Is Hard
Hi, we're Danielle and Alex 👋.
We're pretty big introverts so when we first started dating a few years ago, we had a hard time getting to really know each other on a deeper level.
At first we could barely make eye-contact.
But when we started seeking conversation starters on the internet, we found it easier to get past that 'get-to-know-you' stage.
Over time we built a strong foundation by asking each other these questions — and to this day we still make asking questions a priority.
There's certain power in asking questions. Whether you're a new couple or 36 years married — you'll be surprised at how the quality of your relationship can improve by asking the right questions.
The Right Questions
Turns out other couples see the power in asking questions too!
We started posting conversation starters on TikTok in April 2023.
200+ posts later we've shared almost 1,000 total questions.
And what did we learn?
Certain questions hit harder than others. We analyzed these questions over a period of several months to come up with 148 solid questions that we believe all couples should be asking each other.
These are the very questions you'll find in the For / Play deck.
Levels of Depth
Casual
Light-hearted icebreaker questions to help open up and ease into the conversation.
Connection
Questions to deepen your mutual understanding and closeness.
Commitment
Explore values, long-term goals and partnership strength.
Evergreen
10 questions you can always come back to and reflect on relationship growth.
Wildcards
To keep things interesting
Spontaneous Surprises:
Shake up your usual routine with unexpected questions and scenarios, designed to bring spontaneity and excitement to your relationship like it was at the start.Deeper Dares:
Elevate your conversations with challenging questions that dare you both to step outside your comfort zones, fostering growth and deep connection which will have you both falling back in love.Versatile Gameplay:
Wildcards can be mixed in with any category or used on their own, offering an extra layer of unpredictability to your discussions and fun to keep you engaged on learning more and more about eachother.
148 Questions.
Backed By Therapists.
Ready For Play?
Who Is This For?
Whether you're embarking on a new relationship journey or have spent years as a loving duo.
For / Play Cards are the companion for couples at any stage. Ideal for couples seeking deeper intimacy.
Rekindling that initial spark, or simply looking for a meaningful way to spend time together.
How To Play
There's no right or wrong way to use For / Play Cards.
Pick a cozy date night or even a casual moment to pull out a card and spark a conversation. Keep it spontaneous.
Or schedule it in as a relationship-building activity. The cards come with a handy user guide filled with tips on fostering great conversations!
Still curious? Check out our instructions page!
What's The Point?
Communication is the life source of any relationship.
For / Play is designed to facilitate meaningful discussions that range from fun and light to deep and insightful.
Did you know It's not about interrogating each other; it's about creating a space to explore your thoughts, feelings, and dreams—individually and as a couple.
Levels of Depth
Casual
Light-hearted icebreaker questions to help open up and ease into the conversation.
Connection
Questions to deepen your mutual understanding and closeness.
Commitment
Explore values, long-term goals and partnership strength.
Evergreen
10 questions you can always come back to and reflect on relationship growth.
Wildcards
To keep things interesting
Spontaneous Surprises: Shake up your usual routine with unexpected questions and scenarios, designed to bring spontaneity and excitement to your relationship.
Deeper Dares: Elevate your conversations with challenging questions that dare you both to step outside your comfort zones, fostering growth and deep connection.
Versatile Gameplay: Wildcards can be mixed in with any category or used on their own, offering an extra layer of unpredictability to your discussions.
148 Questions.
Backed By Therapists.
Ready For Play?
Who Is This For?
Whether you're embarking on a new relationship journey or have spent years as a loving duo,
For / Play Cards are the companion for couples at any stage. Ideal for couples seeking deeper intimacy, rekindling that initial spark, or simply looking for a meaningful way to spend time together.
How To Play
There's no right or wrong way to use For / Play Cards. Pick a cozy date night or even a casual moment to pull out a card and spark a conversation. Keep it spontaneous or schedule it in as a relationship-building activity. The cards come with a handy user guide filled with tips on fostering great conversations!
Still curious? Check out our instructions page!
What's The Point?
Communication is the life source of any relationship. For / Play Cards are designed to facilitate meaningful discussions that range from fun and light to deep and insightful. It's not about interrogating each other; it's about creating a space to explore your thoughts, feelings, and dreams—individually and as a couple.
Frequently Asked Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
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+ 25 Intimate Questions, 10 Date Night Ideas,
Plus Weekly Dating Tips
Get The Free Date Night Kit
+ 25 Intimate Questions, + 10 Date Night Ideas,
Plus Weekly Dating Tips