Vulnerability is a skill that is built through many uncomfortable conversations.
At first some of these questions may feel challenging to ask or answer.
It's okay. Take your time. You're building the foundation for a strong and healthy relationship — and that takes time.

Consent before playing:
There are some cards that encourage physical interaction and both partners need to be comfortable and willing before preceding. 

Create a safe word:
Agree that when this word is used, you are going to stop asking questions or skip a card. 

Set a ‘no pressure’ agreement:
If things get uncomfortable do not pressure your partner to answer a question. 

Show up ready to connect and be vulnerable. What you bring to this set is what you will get out of it.

Be mindful of your mood. These questions are best when both partners are in a loving and caring headspace.

Great communication in your relationship isn’t a one and done thing.

Many cards have been designed to come back to.

The Evergreen set is specifically designed to create great communication habits in your relationship.
Set a reminder on your phone to come back regularly.

This card set is not a substitute for professional counselling or therapy.

Go through the sets in order: 
Follow the questions as you move along the phases of your relationship and pace them out over many sessions or date nights. Start with the Casual set when you first start dating, and progress to Connection and Commitment questions when you feel ready. 

Pick and choose:
Based on where you're at in your relationship and what mood you’re in.
Jump from Casual to Connection to Commitment however it suits you!

Shuffle ‘em!
Every question was designed to help you deepen your connection and intimacy so when you shuffle, you’ll get a little bit of everything from light to deep but all with the same intention. 

Casual 

These are the lighter-hearted “getting-to-know-you” questions. Choose this set if you’re in the very early stages of your relationship or you’re in the mood for relaxed and fun questions. 

Connection 

These questions are all about getting to know each other’s past, strengthen communication and talk about future plans and aspirations together. There’s more hands-on wildcards that will help strengthen intimacy through action. Choose this set if you want to talk more deeply about your relationship.

Commitment

This set goes deep! These questions were designed to dive into some important, and sometimes intense, questions that are essential for couples to build a strong foundation of communication. Choose this set if you’ve been together for a while or are ready to have some deeper conversations about the future of your relationship. 

Tip:tackle a few questions at a time and mix them with some questions from the Casual and Connection set - or take a break!

Evergreen 

This set of 10 fundamental questions is designed to come back to later and meant for you to revisit regularly as a couple in order to make a habit of strong communication and intimacy! 

Vulnerability is a skill that is built through many uncomfortable conversations.
At first some of these questions may feel challenging to ask or answer.
It's okay. Take your time. You're building the foundation for a strong and healthy relationship — and that takes time.

Consent before playing:
There are some cards that encourage physical interaction and both partners need to be comfortable and willing before preceding. 

Create a safe word:
Agree that when this word is used, you are going to stop asking questions or skip a card. 

Set a ‘no pressure’ agreement:
If things get uncomfortable do not pressure your partner to answer a question. 

Show up ready to connect and be vulnerable. What you bring to this set is what you will get out of it.

Be mindful of your mood. These questions are best when both partners are in a loving and caring headspace.

Great communication in your relationship isn’t a one and done thing.

Many cards have been designed to come back to.

The Evergreen set is specifically designed to create great communication habits in your relationship.
Set a reminder on your phone to come back regularly.

This card set is not a substitute for professional counselling or therapy.

Go through the sets in order: 
Follow the questions as you move along the phases of your relationship and pace them out over many sessions or date nights. Start with the Casual set when you first start dating, and progress to Connection and Commitment questions when you feel ready. 

Pick and choose:
Based on where you're at in your relationship and what mood you’re in.
Jump from Casual to Connection to Commitment however it suits you!

Shuffle ‘em!
Every question was designed to help you deepen your connection and intimacy so when you shuffle, you’ll get a little bit of everything from light to deep but all with the same intention. 

Casual 

These are the lighter-hearted “getting-to-know-you” questions. Choose this set if you’re in the very early stages of your relationship or you’re in the mood for relaxed and fun questions. 

Connection 

These questions are all about getting to know each other’s past, strengthen communication and talk about future plans and aspirations together. There’s more hands-on wildcards that will help strengthen intimacy through action. Choose this set if you want to talk more deeply about your relationship.

Commitment

This set goes deep! These questions were designed to dive into some important, and sometimes intense, questions that are essential for couples to build a strong foundation of communication. Choose this set if you’ve been together for a while or are ready to have some deeper conversations about the future of your relationship. 

Tip:tackle a few questions at a time and mix them with some questions from the Casual and Connection set - or take a break!

Evergreen 

This set of 10 fundamental questions is designed to come back to later and meant for you to revisit regularly as a couple in order to make a habit of strong communication and intimacy! 

Vulnerability is a skill that is built through many uncomfortable conversations.
At first some of these questions may feel challenging to ask or answer.
It's okay. Take your time. You're building the foundation for a strong and healthy relationship — and that takes time.

Consent before playing:
There are some cards that encourage physical interaction and both partners need to be comfortable and willing before preceding. 

Create a safe word:
Agree that when this word is used, you are going to stop asking questions or skip a card. 

Set a ‘no pressure’ agreement:
If things get uncomfortable do not pressure your partner to answer a question. 

Show up ready to connect and be vulnerable. What you bring to this set is what you will get out of it.

Be mindful of your mood. These questions are best when both partners are in a loving and caring headspace.

Great communication in your relationship isn’t a one and done thing.

Many cards have been designed to come back to.

The Evergreen set is specifically designed to create great communication habits in your relationship.
Set a reminder on your phone to come back regularly.

This card set is not a substitute for professional counselling or therapy.

Go through the sets in order: 
Follow the questions as you move along the phases of your relationship and pace them out over many sessions or date nights. Start with the Casual set when you first start dating, and progress to Connection and Commitment questions when you feel ready. 

Pick and choose:
Based on where you're at in your relationship and what mood you’re in.
Jump from Casual to Connection to Commitment however it suits you!

Shuffle ‘em!
Every question was designed to help you deepen your connection and intimacy so when you shuffle, you’ll get a little bit of everything from light to deep but all with the same intention. 

Casual 

These are the lighter-hearted “getting-to-know-you” questions. Choose this set if you’re in the very early stages of your relationship or you’re in the mood for relaxed and fun questions. 

Connection 

These questions are all about getting to know each other’s past, strengthen communication and talk about future plans and aspirations together. There’s more hands-on wildcards that will help strengthen intimacy through action. Choose this set if you want to talk more deeply about your relationship.

Commitment

This set goes deep! These questions were designed to dive into some important, and sometimes intense, questions that are essential for couples to build a strong foundation of communication. Choose this set if you’ve been together for a while or are ready to have some deeper conversations about the future of your relationship. 

Tip:tackle a few questions at a time and mix them with some questions from the Casual and Connection set - or take a break!

Evergreen 

This set of 10 fundamental questions is designed to come back to later and meant for you to revisit regularly as a couple in order to make a habit of strong communication and intimacy!